




This morning I awoke early, and my first thought, lying there in a hypnagogic state in my rack was - "I should take a trip with my mom to Ireland". I'm not sure why this thought came to my mind, but it did. I fell back asleep for a little while but on the way to lunch I had the thought again. Every year around this time I entertain the idea, but something always prevents me from following through with it. My mom has been saying for years that she wants to go back to Ireland and this year would seem to be perfect - I'll have the time off, my mom is in a job where she could take the time off, I'm in a great financial place to afford a trip for the two of us and what a perfect idea in lieu of a "Welcome Home Party", which seems to be a bad idea, to spend some quality time with my mom! Still, I wanted some sort of sign that I should move forward with this idea, and then on the walk back from the chow hall - there it was. I saw it from about 100 feet away - an emerald, shining crystal clear, just lying there in the sand! I couldn't believe my eyes and at first I thought I was hallucinating. I mean, I've seen a lot of strange things left in the sand since my arrival here - coins, jewelry, etc, but an emerald, no way! Selling an emerald this size, (walking towards it I saw that it was about the size of a bottle cap, maybe a little larger), would surely pay for an amazing trip. In fact, I thought how it may even pay for most of my Acura - for sure it would pay for loads of Margaritas in Puerto Vallarta. Where would I sell an emerald this size? Did it fall out of a ring? Would someone be looking for it? - No, I'm sorry, finders keepers, I wasn't giving it back, this was fate, THIS WAS DESTINY - this was...... a Green Apple Jolly Rancher that someone had just spit out of their mouth, still glistening and shimmering with spit :( Nevertheless, it was still the sign that I needed.
I called my mom up when I arrived at work. Waiting for 5 hours until an appropriate East Coast time killed me, but I decided to spend the time looking into Ireland Vacation Packages on-line. To my surprise, there were lots, and at reasonable prices! Everything from staying in 5 star castle hotels to staying in cozy Bed & Breakfasts or Cottages in the country. Even Aer Lingus, the Irish airline, offers deals. I started to think about how great it would be to be sitting with my mom in an Irish Pub on my birthday December 19th with a foamy lip from the Guinness I'd be sipping on. That was it, I couldn't wait another moment - I just had to call my mom.
The phone rang and it was 8 am in Bethlehem, PA. My mother was in her own hypnagogic state, but I woke her up and said, "Are you sitting down?" She replied, "I'm still lying in bed, yeah, what's up?" "I had a thought"...Now usually, and Victor can surely verify, whenever I spit out those words, a bomb is about to be dropped. God knows I've dropped lots of bombs on you Victor - my "epiphanies". Anyway, my mom took a deep breath, cracked a little smile that I could feel through the phone and she finally replied, "O.k., go ahead, what?" Then I threw it out there, "What do ya say you...and me...around December 15th through the 22nd or 23rd...take a vacation to Ireland?" Her first response was one of someone that didn't believe me to be serious, but once she knew I meant business, she made plans to go to the AAA on Friday and look for vacation packages - I said I would equally research it on-line and together we would come up with a vacation that we would remember for the rest of our lives!
It's amazing what can become of a single thought. I woke up and because of my thought, in less than 3 months I could be snuggling up to the fireplace in an Irish cottage sipping on some Jameson - yeah mom, I know I'm not the biggest fan of the Jameson, but I promise that on this trip with you in Ireland, I'll have at least one Jameson drink. (Mind you my mother swears that Jameson Irish Whiskey, which she used to rub on our teeth when we were babies and teething, "goes down your throat like water". She'd even say that "nothing gets rid of a cold like a good shot of Jameson". Kathy Sweeney, your whole family is Irish - I know you would probably agree. Anyway, I digress.) So the day is going to end with me lying in my bed thinking about Bailey's and Cornbeef & Cabbage, and Leprechauns dancing. I can't wait to go with you - this Green Apple Jolly Rancher that I'm putting in my mouth right now goes out to you and me mom! Top O' The Morning To Ya! Here's to planning an amazing trip together!
14 comments:
Wow! Excellent!!!! Mexico and NOW Ireland! :-) I think you should create a new reality TV series when you return. I think you should call it 'RJ: Around the World in 80 Days'.
Well, all I can say is 'Eirinn go Braugh!' or whatever it means to say 'Ireland Forever'. (I managed to escape Irish-dom by being born into a fancy aristocratic Hungarian/Austrian family on my mom's side and a German one on my Dad's side - but they weren't aristocratic, just Quakers. Anyway, I digress. "Kunsta miche woche hoche bleiwe?? Eh?" :-)
Now, I want you to think back about our trip to Ireland when we were 17... Crazy, huh? LOL!
And just so you know most Americans claim Irish heritage. The Irish are the largest white ethnic group to migrate to the US. (The Hungarians and Swedes had the fewest immigrants.)
Yes, I am full of useless information now that I ditched my PhD program.
Eirinn go Bragh!
Wait...check this out from WikiAnswers:
"I am Irish and live in Dublin and like most irish people have studied irish for about 12 years. 'Erin go braugh' is an incorrect spelling and is essentially meaningless. 'Erin go bre�' however is the correct phrase and means 'Ireland the beautiful'. 'Erin go deo' means ireland forever and there really is no other reason to argue on this point. The various misspellings of 'go bre�' are due to the americanisation of the phrase , i would imagine due to people using it and not knowing what it actually means.Therefore it is being spelt according to how it is being spoken. nice. really nice.
For the sake of others researching this colloquial phrase: Other common spellings include "Erin go brah" and "Erin go bragh".
While it's possible that not knowing the meaning of the term can lead to its misspelling, it seems more likely that it has simply evolved into this phonetic variant over the years as the language that spawned it gradually died out here. That and the poor level of literacy in its country of origin.
The current phrase itself is highly ironic when you consider the Americans shouting it annually are descended from those who fled the very land they're venerating.
...Actually the correct spelling of the phrase is 'Éirinn go Brách' or in some dialects of Gaeilge 'Éirinn go Brágh,' and as a native speaker of the language, I can say that it is not meaningless and has nothing whatsoever to do with the phrase 'Erin go breá' which in itself is spelt wrong, it should be 'Éirinn go breá.'
'Éirinn go Brágh' is now commonly used as a patriotic cry meaning 'Ireland forever,' - 'go Brágh' meaning forever. '
The phrase is actually thought to have originated from Scottish Gàidhlig, and then brought into Irish Gaeilge."
RJ, please delete if you think I just violated some copyright stuff. Thanks. :-)
Hi RJ!
I am SO jealous! I've been dreaming about going to Ireland for years. Love my Irish heritage, not quite half, but almost. I hope you and your mom have a fabulous time! What a great gift for her. I want to see pictures so I can daydream about it!
Missy
P.S. Thanks for the lesson Jan!
Beautiful pics, RJ! :-)
Yep, I'm one of them who claims some Irish heritage. At least that's what my parents have told me.
Sounds like an awesome trip. Ireland is beautiful. I know you'll have a great time. Make sure you post some pics for us. :-)
J
RJ,
Please tell me you did not eat that jolly rancher you found in the sand:)
It sounds like a wonderful trip, I'm sure you and your mom will have a great time.
I think you should still have a party too, I'm sure there are alot of people who would love to celebrate with you (and you could show off all the photos of your recent trips).
Debby
Proud military mom
Oh the EPIPANY'S! I know them better than anyone. And for anyone reading this blog if you have the priviledge for RJ to say those words to you; know you are in for something special.
Ireland sounds great. I love Europe. Haven't been to that country yet but I am sure I will make a excursion soon.
I claim no Irish Hertitage. I only claim similiar drinking habits. lol!
Well the count down continues until Mexico. And you can pretend to speak spanish like you used to in Miami!
VIVA MEXICO
VIVA IRELAND
VIVA PUERTO RICO
VIVA VICTOR!!! LOL!
Ireland is a dream of mine. I want to see where my family came from. I want to walk the same ground my family walked on. My mom is big on working on the family tree. She has found family way way way way back a few million moons ago. LOL I will be thinking of you and your mom in Ireland... and right before Christmas! You must drink several Guinness for your Irish Angel here. And your mom is right about the Jameson. Christopher wants you to send him a post card. Hell We all want one! so you have to remember to take our address with you! I'll remind you again in December. LOL
Jan thanks for the lesson.
Angel Love Doc,
Susan, Christopher & Justina
??? DID YOU EAT THAT JOLLY RANCHER??? EEEEWWWWW that is sick! :P
I think you are the best to take your Mom to Ireland. It is a beautiful place to go. I was stationed in England for 3 years, and visited the Island, and it was so beautiful that I want to go back.
Have a blast and stay cool as always.
When my Irish friends went to Ireland years ago, they were very disappointed that they could not find any corned beef and cabbage in any of the restaurants/pubs. However,the beer and whiskey drinks made up for any deprivation she and her hubby may have felt. Hey, what's that Irish folklore (or is it??) story about a hand and the hand reaching the shore first for ownership or something?
whooaaa, ireland. I remember the epiphanies. Vividly.
Ohhh...I am so jealous. Ireland would be fantastic. Have fun and drink a irish car bomb for me!!!
And by the way...I hope that jolly rancher you put in your mouth isn't the one you found on the ground!!! YUCK!
RJ,
Have a hot whiskey for me and maybe a pint of "the dark stuff"! LOL, Pat was "fond of the whiskey" when we used it on his gums. Your mom will love it in Eire. Perhaps you'll have a chance to meet Tom Sweeney. Wonderful idea RJ. Your a mighty piece of a man!
Kathy Sweeney
Well, you can tell by my email addy, that would be a dream trip for me. You and your mom have a great & safe trip, great idea! (inspired by a used Jolly Rancher, life IS funny! ...and I know full well there's NO way that was the same Jolly Rancher, but it crossed my mind for one second, I'll confess!:)
beannacht (blessing),
Melissa B.
I just got back from Scotland and Ireland. The beauty of the place will warm your soul. Visit the Cliffs of Moher and Bunratty Castle. You will see more sheep and cows than you ever thought existed! I have been reading your blog ever since I became aware of you on Soldier's Angels.I praise you for your wisdom and am in wonder at your tolerence and joy in your humor. Best wishes for you and your Mom on your trip to Ireland. Soldier's Angel, Ann S.
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